did i do that?

It is obvious that our lives are destined to have hardships. Some more than others. I have discussed earlier on the ‘fairness’ of it all in “the beauty of grace” so I wont go there again. Now I’d like to break out hardships into two major categories: a) Circumstance and b) Consequence

a) Circumstances are situations that exist that are outside your realm of control.
b) Consequences are situations that exist as a result of direct or indirect personal influence.

Just like in the book of Job, there are those who insist that hardships (i.e. aunt Edna got cancer) are a direct result of sin in your life, and so within your realm of control. The book of Job is certainly case against that notion entirely. That is not to say, then, that no hardships in our lives are a result of our own doing. Take for example the man who is poor, homeless on the street. No one knows his story, but God does. He cries out, “God, why have You done this to me?” and God quietly whispers back thru the poor mans guilty conscience, “Not I, but you. You spent the money. You spent it on drugs and gambling. And now it is gone. I have done something, though. I have kept you alive this long. I have brought to you my witnesses that you may hear the good news that I have for you, but your financial hardship is simply the consequence for your actions.”

(a quick appeal to my public image – this is not my presupposition towards the homeless)

And so this brings to mind yet another quote from Relient K: “I so hate consequences”

Anyways, when facing hardships, it’s perfectly okay to ask, “Why God? Why me? Why now?” Just be prepared for the answer. If it is circumstance, remember God is with you. He will never give you more than you can bear (though it may seem as such). If it is consequence, learn from it. Own up to it and thank God for second chances.